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I was reading through various news articles across the web and I come across this one. “Woman in Intensive Care after ‘Restoring Virginity’ for 6th time”. Uhhh…really? Are you kidding me? Nope… read on!
From FoxNews.com:
The woman, identified only as Natalia K., had her first hymenoplasty operation six years ago before getting married, the Russian Web site Life.ru reports.
Hymenoplasty, also known as hymenorrhaphy or hymen reconstruction surgery, is a type of plastic surgery that involves the restoration of the hymen. The aim of this surgery is to ensure bleeding during sexual intercourse, giving the appearance that the woman is a virgin.
Natalie K. had the surgery before her wedding because her husband was upset that she had already lost her virginity to another man. However, he apparently liked the results of the surgery so much, he asked his wife to have the surgery each year following their wedding.
Doctors warned Natalie K. that having the surgery for the sixth time posed risks, however she chose to go through with it. She caught a “minor infection” after the surgery and is now in intensive care.
Ok. Seriously, WHO would do that…even once? I really don’t see how this reverses virginity, nothing can. Sure, virginity is breaking your hymen for the first time but it also means you’re “pure” and “untouched” and experiencing things for the first time. Nothing can take that back after you’ve gotten it on for the first time. A wee-wee was still in you before! You know what it feels like! Nothing is new! It’s odd that people could consider this surgery re-virginizing because A) you’ve already had sex so you’re body has already been exploited but B) now you’re putting yourself in a position where your body is further is exploited by having doctors and foreign objects being inserted and poking and prodding and whatever else they do up in there. That’s like, opposite! Why allow MORE people to mess with the sacred nether regions if you want your virginity back? Why not abstain from sex for a lengthy period of time? I can guarantee that you’ll feel more like a virgin during sex after abstaining for a lengthy period of time (not that I would know. 
) than you will after this surgery. But of course, good luck getting your man to agree to that, lol. But I digress…
As for this story, this guy, in my opinion, is sick for wanting his wife to do this. If he wanted blood during sex, have sex during her period. She will never be a true virgin again regardless of how many times she has this surgery. She’s already been “had” …just as I’m sure he wasn’t a virgin but of course there is no way to correct that.
If my boyfriend told me to have this done.. I’d say Ef U. Haha. My first time was special albeit not with him. Just because it wasn’t with him doesn’t mean it can’t be a special memory tucked away. Also, most women don’t have sex with everyone and their brother so each time previously most likely was with a special person and just because the relationship never lasted, it doesn’t make it any less special. People grow up, people grow apart. Previously relationships should never be looked down upon because you’ve experienced things you found out you like and don’t like. However, I do concede that there are those relationships that you were totally like “what was I thinking?” but those are hopefully far and few in between and another blog post. LoL.
So, in a nutshell -
- This surgery shouldn’t even be allowed, it does nothing but potentially hurt patients because going under is always a risk.
- Your body is exploited even moreso than just having sex.
- This husband needs a mental evaluation.
- The wife needs a mental evaluation due to potential emotional abuse by said husband and his obsession with “virginity”. Pleasing her husband almost killed her! Nothing is worth that. (Unless maybe he needed a kidney or half of a liver or a lung, but that’s not the case is it?)
- Virginity is more than just breaking the hymen. It’s experiencing feelings and sensations for the first time…evar.
- Want to experience blood during sex? Do it doing her period you’ll have an almost endless supply. Problem solved.
- Want to feel like a virgin? Abstain for like a year…or two… second problem solved.
Yes, I guess this blog post is kind of egh…but then, I’ll discuss anything. There is no such thing as TMI in my book! lol
Until next time – ciao.
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